The Life of Elizabeth Fry
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By the pupils of City Academy, Norwich (formerly Earlham School)
Things you may not know about Elizabeth Fry
She was actually very shy but could also be obstinate.
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Elizabeth, known as Betsy to her family, was not a confident child and did not think she was as pretty as her sisters. She wanted to be liked and was sometimes afraid of doing the wrong thing.
As a child, she was afraid of the dark.
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In her diary she records: "I was also accordingly...afraid of the dark and suffered acutely from being left alone without a light after I went to bed." She was also afraid of guns and of swimming (on a trip to the coast as she was afraid of the waves).
She loved her mother and was very afraid of losing her.
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She tells us in her diaries that she would stay close to her mother as she was afraid she would die. She describes how, at one time, she wanted the walls of the house to squash them all so they did not have to suffer the misery of each other's death. She was devastated (aged 12) when her mother died.
She did not like learning but was very imaginative.
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She did not always appreciate the lessons her mother taught her and would often try to get out of learning. However she had a very vivid imagination.
She loved nature and collecting curiosities.
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She liked watching the seasons change and remembers, in her diaries, looking after flowers with her mother. She had a shell cabinet in which she kept a collection.
When young, Elizabeth was known for wearing bright, colourful clothes.
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Elizabeth and her sisters stood out amongst the other Quakers, who wore simple garments without trimmings, because of their bright, fashionable clothes. When she was 18, Elizabeth records going to the Goat Lane meeting house wearing purple boots with scarlet laces.
She loved grand company, was a great horsewoman, singer and dancer.
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In her diary in 1798, she noted: "Mrs Opie, Amelia and I went to the opera concert. I do love grand company. The Prince of Wales was there and I own I feel more pleasure in looking at him than in seeing the rest of the company".
She was very aware of what she saw as 'her faults'.
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In 1797 in her diary, she talks about helping others and overcoming her faults. In her entry for 1st August she records: "My inclinations lead me to be an idle, flirting, worldly, feeling girl."
She did not find it easy to give up her rich clothes and adopt plain Quaker ways.
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She did this gradually. First, she stopped wearing jewellery, then had her dresses made more and more simply. In 1799, although described as wearing a plain grey silk dress, she still wore it with a fashionable black lace turban, with the ends of her blonde hair hanging at one side. She also describes how, the first time she went to address an acquaintance in the Quaker way using ‘thee’, she lost courage and ran away.
She struggled with her decision to become a plain Quaker because of her family.
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Her religious views meant she no longer felt comfortable joining in dances and visiting theatres; this caused her to grow away from her family, upsetting both herself and them. Later she would become close again to her brothers and sisters, particularly Samuel and Joseph John, who helped support her work.
She felt that fashion and frivolous things would distract her from her work.
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She adopted plain dress and speech, as she felt it allowed her greater freedom to focus on her work and the needs of others.
She made rules for herself when she felt she was becoming too worldly.
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These included: "Never say an ill thing of a person when I can say a good thing of them. Not only to speak charitably but to feel. Never indulge myself in luxuries that are not necessary."
She was a practical rather than a spiritual type of person.
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Although of strong beliefs, she was a doer and looked for practical solutions. This led her to make great efforts to help people.
When still in her teens, she started a Sunday school in the laundry at the family home in Earlham.
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Many of the children she taught to read and write were already working in Norwich factories. They were called 'Betsy's imps' by her sisters.
She was very determined and not afraid to take risks.
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The the gaoler warned Elizabeth not to enter Newgate alone, saying: "You should not go in alone, ma'am. They'll tear off your things and scratch and claw you. And first of all they'll snatch your watch." The only concession Elizabeth made was to leave her watch.
For more than 25 years, she regularly visited convict ships leaving for Botany Bay.
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She worked tirelessly to promote reform of the convict ship system and improve conditions for the women on board.
She was a supporter of vaccination and trained in the procedure herself.
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Elizabeth was trained by Dr. Willan, one of the earliest advocates of vaccination. At intervals she made an investigation of the state of the parish, with a view to vaccinating the children. The result was that smallpox was scarcely known in the villages over which she had influence.
She was skilled at caring for the sick; she established a nursing school and worked to improve standards.
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She often nursed sick relatives and had what was described as a mixture of authority and tenderness, along with a calm, strong and cheerful presence. Her nursing school inspired Florence Nightingale, a distant relative, who took a team of Fry's nurses to assist wounded soldiers in the Crimean War.
She detested violence of any kind.
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In public life she campaigned against capital punishment and flogging. In her private life, when she came home one day to find the governess beating one of her children, she dismissed her straight away.
She had an extraordinary presence and was very persuasive.
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When she drew up rules of good conduct and cleanliness for the prisoners of Newgate and described the comfort and help they would find in a better way of life, all agreed to follow these ideas.
She believed in helping people to help themselves.
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She never issued orders but asked, "Is there nothing WE can do?" This demonstrated to the prisoners their worth and value. Her emphasis was on reform, developing self-esteem and skills.
She gave birth to 11 children.
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One child, Betsy, died aged five. She also had 25 grandchildren. She had a noisy family that sometimes shocked her sisters who thought she devoted time to ministry that she should devote to her children, but Elizabeth was pleased with the people they grew up to be.
She struggled to reconcile demands of family, religion and good works.
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Like many people, she struggled to cope with all the demands on her time and was anxious about those close to her, particularly her children. She was very concerned whether she was doing the best for them.
She suffered from bouts of bad health and very bad toothache!
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She had what was described as a 'tender nervous system'. When first married, her diary describes the constant problems she had with toothache. At several periods in her life she suffered bad health but carried on with her work, often returning to duties before she was really well enough.
Her supporters included royalty.
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Queen Charlotte (the wife of George III) asked her for an audience, and the young Victoria was an admirer who contributed money to her cause. When the King of Prussia, Frederick William IV, came to England, he particularly asked to visit Newgate with Elizabeth Fry.
Elizabeth Fry was one of the ‘celebrities’ of her day.
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The rich flocked to meet the famous Mrs Fry. When Elizabeth read from the Bible or preached at Newgate, so many people wanted to attend that the London magistrates authorised her to issue tickets. She was aware that this popularity could go to her head and admitted in her journals she was too fond of the company of ‘the great’, but she exploited her position to further her causes. In her later years, when interest was not as great, it seems she missed being at the centre of things.